November 25, 2012 
By Jim Yardley
  
 For
 at least the past decade, and perhaps longer, the nations of the West 
have treated jihadists and radical Islamists (which groups count for 
many more Muslims than most Americans care to admit) with an inordinate 
level of respect so as not to "offend" them. 
The
 first thing that should be considered is that no one is entitled to 
"respect."  "Respect" must be earned, just as "trust" must be earned.  
One might argue that "courtesy" can be demanded, but to demand "respect"
 and "trust" is insulting to those from whom the fulfillment of the 
demand is required.
The second thing that should be noted is that Western nations define the word "respect" differently from the way Islamic
 nations do.  Based on observed historical example, dominant strict 
Islamic nations recognize only abject subjugation, known as dhimmitude, 
as a display of respect.  Any attempt to sustain independence from their
 control is viewed as being disrespectful of, if not blasphemous to, 
their religious sensitivities. 
Third,
 behavior by strict adherents of Islamic doctrine in areas of personal 
interactions among themselves makes providing any level of respect -- 
much less giving them what they view as proper levels of respect -- 
nearly impossible.
How
 can non-Muslins respect a man who will murder his own daughters for the
 unforgivable sin of disagreement with his edicts when such disagreement
 might cause him the slightest embarrassment within his own culture? 
 (His own culture being defined as the culture of his birth, not the 
culture of his current nation of residence.)   We can offer such a man a
 modicum of courtesy, but has he earned our respect?
How can Westerners respect a family
 that effectively forces a daughter to marry against her will?  One 
might offer polite words wishing for the future happiness of the two 
parties to the marriage as a courtesy, but how much respect is due to 
the family who would do this to their own child?
How can Westerners respect a nation that believes that a woman who has merely been accused
 of adultery can be subjected to a brutal death by stoning?  No proof 
required, and under sharia law, a woman's testimony is discounted when 
in conflict with the testimony of a man.  How does that deserve respect?
Even
 knowing that offering any criticism of another culture invites 
accusations of insensitivity, Islamophobia, racism, and any other 
calumny that can be hurled by academics, the dinosaur media, and 
liberals in general, one still has to ask what benefit the average 
citizen of any European or North American nation can possibly get from 
toleration of these displays of barbarity in the name of "diversity." 
To
 say that America is not at war with Islam is about as logical as saying
 that the United States was not at war with Japan after the attack on 
Pearl Harbor.  True, not every Japanese citizen was in favor of 
attacking America.  Even the man who planned the attack, Admiral 
Yamamoto, didn't think it was the greatest idea he'd ever heard, but he 
followed orders anyway.  Unfortunately, the ordinary citizens of Japan 
supported, actively or passively, the fanatics who were behind the 
attack.  They continued to support those same fanatics until nuclear 
bombs went off over Hiroshima and Nagasaki.  Does this earn them any 
respect?
The
 average German citizen might not have been a Kool-Aid-drinking 
supporter of Adolf Hitler; some or even many of them may have cooperated
 for fear of the Gestapo and the concentration camps.  Once again, did 
that earn ordinary Germans or the German government any respect?
In
 both cases, the very same arguments could be used to defend Muslims who
 don't actively oppose the strict application of sharia.  They didn't 
personally lead the 9/11 assault on America.  They didn't personally 
kill our ambassador in Libya.  They didn't personally try to sink the 
USS Cole or blow up our embassy in Nairobi.  And those things 
are all true.  But is this behavior worthy of respect?  In diplomatic 
circles we may still act in a courteous manner toward the government of 
Libya, but has this event created an atmosphere of respect?
If
 ordinary Muslims actively or passively support a group of barbaric 
maniacs, even if that support is coerced or offered because of a 
(justifiable) fear of getting their own heads cut off, does that 
surrender to their fear deserve our respect?
That
 being said, then, the idea of rules of engagement that are overly 
solicitous of "innocent civilians" in Afghanistan is not a rational 
response during a war.  Afghans can either fight to expel al-Qaeda and 
the Taliban, or they should be viewed as equivalent to an accessory to a
 crime.  If they choose to tolerate, and tacitly support the terrorists 
in their midst, does that deserve respect?
Oddly,
 Muslims would respect America more if that tack were taken.  After all,
 under our definition, the 3,000-plus people who died on 9/11 were 
"innocent civilians," too.  But the jihadists and Islamists viewed them 
as equally guilty since, through taxation, they supported the Great 
Satan.  Perhaps showing them that we plan on operating using their rules
 and not ours will make their black, shriveled hearts go pitter-pat when
 we show them that we are finally respecting their ways.
It's
 time and past to operate under the same rules of engagement as the 
Islamic fanatics that we are coping with, and responding to their 
aggression with overwhelming force, and without the illogical and 
asymmetrical rules of engagement forced on our troops by the White House
 and the Pentagon.  It is possible that America might earn the respect 
of the Muslim world, if not our own domestic critics.
Jim Yardley is a retired financial controller for a variety of manufacturing firms, a Vietnam veteran, and an independent voter.  Jim blogs at http://jimyardley.wordpress.com, or he can be contacted directly at james.v.yardley@gmail.com.
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